Holiday Reminders for Co-Parents

November hits different for single parents. The holiday season is coming…and let’s be honest, some days are harder than others. For co-parents, the holidays can bring stress and uncertainty. Between coordinating schedules, managing exchanges, and ensuring that the children have a happy holiday, it’s easy for tensions to rise.

But, with preparation and communication, the holidays can still be smooth and enjoyable for everyone involved – especially the kids. Here are a few tips from the family law team at Bloom Peters to help co-parents navigate the holiday season with ease.

1.      Put Your Kids First. The holidays should be about creating memories, not managing tension. Avoid negative talk and never make the children choose between houses. A calm and positive approach makes the children feel secure and loved – no matter how the schedule looks.

2.      Coordinate Gifts. If you and your co-parent exchange gifts with your children, try to coordinate in advance to avoid repeat gifts and competition. This will help your child feel supported by both parents.

3.      Review Your Custody Schedule Early. Take a few minutes to review your custody agreement. Make sure that you understand exactly how holiday time is divided. If anything needs clarification, address it now. Early planning prevents last-minute stress and confusion. Plus, it ensures that your child knows what to expect.

4.      Share Traditions & Make New Ones. It’s ok if things look different now. Cherish the traditions that your children love, but also use this season to make new traditions. Not with your kids on the actual day? Pick another date to celebrate. It’s not the same, but new traditions can still be special.

5.      Be Flexible When Possible. Even the best-laid plans can change. Flight delays, sickness, weather, and unexpected family events happen. Meeting those challenges with understanding not only reduces conflict but also sets a positive example for your children.

Bonus Tip: Get Help When You Need It. If your holiday schedule is unclear or if disagreements arise, you are not alone. Call and schedule a consult with a Bloom Peters attorney today! We are here to help you navigate the complexities of co-parenting so that you can focus on what matters most – your family.